Adult Situations

This article was written by Danielle

Dirty talk usually doesn’t come natural to most people, probably because it causes them too much embarrassment. However, it can do wonders for your love life. It can add excitement and a sense of adventure to your relationship and strengthen the bond between you and your partner.

But, what happens if you are too self-conscious or simply don’t know what to say? In this case, you are going to find the following tips very helpful:

• Praise him: everyone likes to be complimented. Make him feel sexually capable and manly. You can simply say “You are so big” or something like that. This will feed his ego and make him feel more confident.
• Express your pleasure: let your partner know how much you are enjoying what he is doing to you. You can just say something like “I like it when you touch me there”.
• Play roles: if you are too embarrassed to do this you can pretend you are someone else. Make up a fantasy story with your lover and play it out during sex. This way you can feel that it won’t be you who talks dirty, but the woman you pretend to be.
• Relax: dirty talking should sound natural and not fake. I’m sure that deep down you must be at least a little bit naughty, so just relax and express this side of yourself without the fear that you may be judged.
• Tell him what to do: if you don’t know what to say, you can just use commands. In a sexy voice, tell him what you desire and what you want him to do in detail. Ask him to touch you or kiss you anywhere you want and don’t worry about intimidating him. Most men love these kind of commands!

Article written by Gisele Jones